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MANAGING BEHAVIOR

MANAGING BEHAVIOR. Oliver Winston Iberia Parish School System Session 4A & 4B. Managing Behavior. MANAGE OUR: SELVES STUDENTS ENVIRONMENT. Managing Behavior. What is Discipline? The term “discipline” is intended to mean “teaching, guiding, or in some way helping a child to learn

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MANAGING BEHAVIOR

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  1. MANAGING BEHAVIOR Oliver Winston Iberia Parish School System Session 4A & 4B

  2. Managing Behavior MANAGE OUR: SELVES STUDENTS ENVIRONMENT

  3. Managing Behavior What is Discipline? The term “discipline” is intended to mean “teaching, guiding, or in some way helping a child to learn positive values, rules, and patterns of behavior.”

  4. Managing Behavior PLANNING AND TIME MANAGEMENT

  5. Managing Behavior “Schools need to be ready to meet the needs of all children. School time must be allocated not only to meeting intellectual needs of our students but to meeting their social, emotional, and physical needs as well.”

  6. APPROACHES

  7. Authoritarian Approaches • The “boss” • Directive • Rule-oriented • Inflexible • Care is conditional – “I will like you if you . . .” • “Do as I say”

  8. Laissez-faire Approach • Hands off approach – “live and let live” • Opposite of authoritarian • Lack of structure and limit setting • Lack of supervision – “do what you want” • “Boys will be boys” attitude • Lackadaisical – indifference or lack of interest in progressing.

  9. Dependent Approach • “You need me” approach • Grandmotherly and warm • “Let me do that for you” • Overly protective • Treats child like a victim

  10. Mechanistic Approach • Focus on doing things “by the book” • Must follow and complete schedule • Focus on completing requirements rather than on learning • Lack flexibility and warmth • Treats child as part of a system, not as an individual

  11. Growth-Oriented Approach • Best approach • Warm and connected • Concerned with overall well-being of child • Sets clear rules and expectations • Often includes student input in setting rules so student is invested in the rule

  12. Growth-Oriented Approach • Learning is mutually beneficial • We both learned something here • Learning is a part of our relationship • Mutually rewarding • Independence is valued, promoted and reinforced through fading and praise • Fading: gradual removal of help • Reinforcement: increasing behavior through rewards or praise after the desired behavior

  13. Growth-Oriented Approach • The student gains • a greater desire to learn and cooperate • a desire to show off skills and knowledge • better ability to work with others • better relationships • better behavior • self confidence in own abilities • faster learning

  14. Growth-Oriented Approach • Staff gains an understanding of … • why a child behaves the way they do • what situation will lead to the child doing well and succeeding • the child’s viewpoint • what leads to poor work and negative behavior • staff gain a closer, more meaningful relationship with the child • staff experience a more rewarding job

  15. “I’ve come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element in the classroom. It’s my personal approach that creates the climate. It’s my daily mood that make the weather. As a teacher, I possess a tremendous power to make a child’s life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration. I can humiliate or humor, hurt of heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis will be escalated or de-escalated and a child humanized or dehumanized.”Dr. Haim G. Ginott

  16. Our Needs • We must recognize our own needs and take care of ourselves to have our best selves available to meet the needs of our students

  17. “All children come to school with unmet needs. Most have the ability to delay these needs. Troubled children focus on nothing else until these needs are met. Meet the needs early or consume your time fighting them. The choice is yours, not theirs.”

  18. How To Know the Child • Listen • Observe • Relate

  19. Relating • Connect • Communicate • Verbal • Nonverbal • Pars-verbal • Interact The relationship is the best tool you have to effect change in the student.

  20. Interacting • Builds relationships • Should be done with dignity and respect • Provides unconditional support and caring • Gives the student opportunities to express interests, likes and dislikes • Gives us the opportunity to try solutions

  21. Your Response Can Cause the Situation to Escalate orDe-Escalate. The Choice Is Yours.

  22. Remember • Children lose the ability to think rationally and regress to more primitive behaviors (defense mechanisms) when emotions are intense. • When feelings are intense, thinking is impaired. Take a moment to maintain or regain y our balance. • To change the feeling behind the misbehavior, meet the core need.

  23. CHANGE THE THOUGHTTOCHANGE THE FEELINGTOCHANGE THE BEHAVIOR

  24. Guiding Thoughts for Facilitators on Discouraging Behaviors • Active adult supervision will discourage most problem behaviors starting with simple physical proximity and simple verbal interactions. • Emotionally laden adult responses (e.g. sarcasm, bullying) to misbehavior does not usually discourage problem behavior, and in fact, may encourage or reinforce problem behavior. • Brain research makes it clear that students require regular physical movement in order to optimize learning potential.

  25. Monitoring The key to this principle is to circulate. Get up and get around the room. While you students are working, make the rounds. Check on their progress. An effective teacher will make a pass through the whole room about two minutes after the students have started a written assignment. She checks that each student has started, that the children are on the correct page, and that everyone has put their names on their papers. The delay is important. She wants her students to have a problem or two finished so she can check that answers are correctly labeled or in complete sentences. She provides individualized instruction as needed.

  26. For More Information Presenter:Oliver Winston,Social Skills Trainer, IPSB(337) 365-2343 Ext. 2264olwinston@iberia.k12.la.us

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