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Feel it Big on the Inside: Express it Smaller when in Public

Feel it Big on the Inside: Express it Smaller when in Public. Public Places. What is a public place? A public place is: an indoor or outdoor area, whether privately or publicly owned, to which the public have access by right or by invitation Places other than your home. Public Places.

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Feel it Big on the Inside: Express it Smaller when in Public

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  1. Feel it Big on the Inside: Express it Smaller when in Public

  2. Public Places • What is a public place? • A public place is: an indoor or outdoor area, whether privately or publicly owned, to which the public have access by right or by invitation • Places other than your home

  3. Public Places • Examples of public places: • All restaurants with a seating capacity greater than fifty • All retail stores • Lobbies and malls • Offices, including waiting rooms • Educational facilities • Hospitals • Auditoriums, • Elevators • Libraries • Museums • Parks

  4. Private Place • What is a private place? • Private industries and services are owned or controlled by an individual person or a commercial company, rather than by the state or an official organization. • Private meetings, discussions, and other activities involve only a small number of people, and very little information about them is given to other people.  

  5. Private Place • Can you think of a place that is not public?

  6. Controlling What You Show • The following characters have some very strong feelings about what happened to them. • BUT...what they show is different from what they feel. • Try to identify both emotions in each given scenario.

  7. Scenario #1 • What happened? • Sharon got a sweet 16 birthday gift: footed princess pajamas from great-aunt Bertha. • How do you think Sharon feels? • How do you think Sharon acts in front of her great-aunt?

  8. Scenario #2 • What happened? • Steve’s boss was in a BAD mood. • Nothing Steve did was right. • Finally the boss yelled at him and told him to do the dishes over.

  9. Scenario #2 Continued • How did Steve feel?

  10. Scenario #3 • What happened? • Maggie got an A+ on a difficult test in English • Her best friend (also her study buddy), got a D- • How does Maggie feel?

  11. Alternative Reactions • Maybe you can’t change how you feel, BUT you can learn to control what you show, say, or how you react. • Use some of these ideas or think of alternative reactions to these emotions. • Give yourself some time—sometimes that is enough to change things • Explain your feelings • Talk to someone • Apologize • Make a joke about it

  12. Alternative Reactions • Emotion: ANGER • Ex: Jeff lent his bike to someone, who broke it. *Alternative Reaction: Tell him how you feel • Emotion: DISAPPOINTMENT • Ex: No one remembered Sally’s birthday. • Alternative Reaction: Sally should go out for an ice cream and celebrate anyways

  13. Alternative Reactions • Emotion: SADNESS • Kaleigh just found out that her parents are getting a divorce *Alternative Reaction: Call an understanding friend • Emotion: EMBARASSMENT • Dave fell down the stairs and his books flew everywhere *Alternative Reaction: Make a joke about it • Emotion: REGRET • Todd told his sister that all of his friends thought she was fat—then realized that he had really hurt her feelings *Alternative Reaction: Apologize sincerely

  14. FBI-ESP • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HW6eA7QAKhU being sick in public • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cxhOm14TJM being sick at home

  15. Social Behavior Map Complete worksheet-Feel it Big Response and Express it Small Response

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