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Got Kids? Get Facts!

Got Kids? Get Facts!. Everything Your Kids Wish You Knew about Relationships and Sex …. HUMAN PAPILLOMAVIRUS (HPV). Most common STD in America Lives in the skin & can be passed through skin to genital contact. You can clear it in 2 years.

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Got Kids? Get Facts!

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  1. Got Kids? Get Facts! Everything Your Kids Wish You Knew about Relationships and Sex…

  2. HUMAN PAPILLOMAVIRUS (HPV) • Most common STD in America • Lives in the skin & can be passed through skin to genital contact. • You can clear it in 2 years. • Causes genital warts and cervical and oral cancers. • There is a vaccine for women. • The is no test for men without symptoms.

  3. HERPESSIMPLEXII • 1 in 5 Americans over the age of 12 has herpes. • Herpes causes painful blisters. • 85% of people with herpes don’t even know it! • There is NO cure…

  4. Syphilis • Symptoms can include a rash or flu-like symptoms. • Untreated syphilis can affect all major body organs. • Can be spread by skin-to-skin contact.

  5. CHLAMYDIA • Chlamydia is the #1 STD among teenage girls. • Causes PID and is the #1 cause of infertility. • Though it is a bacteria, it can cause irreversible damage.

  6. HIV • 30% of HIV infected Americans don’t know it. • IV drug users are at risk too. • HIV has become stronger and resistant to medications. STDs can Be deadly…

  7. How At Risk Are You?

  8. Building Blocks • When should you start dating? • Why do people date? • What are the costs? • What are the benefits? • Only Date “Marriage Material.” • Who is your IDEAL guy/girl? • Respect Yourself!

  9. Building Blocks • Don’t Put Yourself into Tempting Situations. • Watch what you wear and what you say. • Drugs and alcohol are risky! • How far is too far? You Can Always Change Your Future!

  10. Abusive Relationships • Do you feel nervous around your boyfriend or girlfriend? • Do you have to be careful to control your behavior to avoid their anger? • Do you feel pressured by them sexually? • Do they criticize or humiliate you in front of other people? • Are they always checking up or questioning you about what you are doing or where you are at? • Do they repeatedly and wrongly accuse you of flirting with other people? • Do they BLAME you for their behavior? • Do they try to keep you from seeing friends or family? • Have they ever scared you with violence or threatening behavior? • Do you often do things to please them, rather than to please yourself? • Do you feel that, with them, nothing you do is ever good enough? • Do they say that they will hurt themselves if you break up with them? • Do they apologize for their behavior but yet continue to do it? • Do they make excuses for their behavior or say they were 'just joking'?

  11. The Media’s influence on teen sexual activity • Movies • Television • Internet • Music • Clothing lines • Video games • Magazines

  12. 7 Steps to Raising Abstinent Teens • Don’t fall into the “Not my Kid” Trap. • Be the Parent! Have reasonable rules! • “Rules without Relationship leads to Rebellion.” • Set age appropriate dating • No computer in bedroom • Charge cell phone in your bedroom • Call to confirm their whereabouts • Set curfews • Monitor movies, music, internet, phone, dress, etc • Don’t have “The Talk”. Use teachable moments. • Carpool • No longer than 15 min. conversations • Use the negative media to your advantage • Don’t use accusatory rhetoric

  13. 7 Steps to Raising Abstinent Teens • Get into your Child’s World. • “Hooking up” • “FWBs” • “Rainbow parties” • “Chicken parties” • “Sun/Star Game” • “Snap” • “Sexting” • Text language: “POS” • Social networking sites

  14. 7 Steps to Raising Abstinent Teens • Help them set physical boundaries. 9 Steps of Intimacy: • Hugging • Holding hands • Closed mouth kissing • Open mouth kissing • Touching over clothes (groping) • Nudity • Genital touching • Oral sex • Sexual intercourse • Help them see the value of sexual intimacy and realize that sex is worth the wait.

  15. Legal Ramifications • Statutory Rape • First-degree rape for someone age 16 or older to have sexual intercourse with someone under age 12. • Second-degree rape for someone age 16 or older to have sexual intercourse with someone between age 12 and 16, when the actor is at least two years older. • Child pornography • Definition: child pornography is defined as visual depiction of minors (i.e. under 18) engaged in a sex act as well as the lewd depictions of the genitals. Furthermore, “lewd" depictions of the genitals does not require the genitals to be uncovered. • Up to 10 years in prison and you become a registered sex offender.

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