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The purpose of this orientation is to ensure that mentors are knowledgeable about the structure of the program and comfortable with their roles and responsibilities. TOPICS FOR DISCUSSION. Welcome and Introductions. Program Overview. Definition of the mentor/protégé relationship.
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The purpose of this orientation is to ensure that mentors are knowledgeable about the structure of the program and comfortable with their roles and responsibilities.
TOPICS FOR DISCUSSION • Welcome and Introductions • Program Overview • Definition of the mentor/protégé • relationship • Functions of a mentor • Getting Started
TOPICS FOR DISCUSSION • Establishing Expectations • Setting Goals • Agreeing on a Plan
Mentoring is a voluntary relationship in which the mentor serves as: • Advisor • Advocate • Friend
Mentoring is a two way relationship that is unique because: • The mentor and protégé are both volunteers • The mentor, although senior, has no formal authority over the protégé
Listening • Teaching skills • Acting as an advocate • Giving exposure to opportunities • Increasing protégé’s visibility
Advice • Access • Advocacy
Advice • Begins with listening • Help protégé make decisions, don’t make decisions for them • Give “how-to” advice on practical matters • Don’t give personal advice: listen and let the protégé talk through a problem
Access • Connect protégé with people or resources that might not otherwise be available • Introduce protégé to colleagues • Show protégé how to find • information on colleges, • scholarships, jobs
Advocacy • An advocate speaks on behalf of a protégé • As an advocate, the mentor links his reputation with the protégé’s • Advocacy is earned over time
Self-Assessment of: • Motivation • Expectations • Background • Assets • Limitations • Fears
Why did your mentor devote his/her time to YOU? • He saw my potential • She saw my untapped potential • He identified with me • She saw some positive things we could work on to our mutual benefit • I was eager to be a protégé
Agreeing on a Plan • Frequency and structure of meetings • Tasks to be accomplished • Target dates
Do: • Listen actively • Show respect • Give honest feedback • Model appropriate behavior • Be realistic and dependable
Do: • State clear expectations • Maintain confidentiality • Let your protégé know what you're gaining from the relationship • Learn from your protégé • Start and end on a positive note
Do: • Help your protégé discover the nature of his/her genius • Have fun
Don’t: • Intimidate protégé • Jump to conclusions • Sugar-coat negatives • Act preoccupied • Promise what you can’t deliver
Don’t: • Give personal advice • Reveal confidences • Ignore cultural or ethnic differences • Assume what works for you will • work for everyone • Put off meetings
Don’t: • Cancel meetings repeatedly • Assume responsibility for protégé’s success • Rush the process