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Today Tools TodaysMeet • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Social Media explained . . . with cats!
Parent Concerns Check the assumptions . . . 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
I am concerned that our teens are missing the ability to learn about and read social cues. They cannot learn to read non-verbal behavior properly if most of their interacting goes on in the virtual world. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Today Tools Facebook • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Create a Class Page • Post Homework (Parents will read this, too) • Share updates, successes, stories • Develop community • Increase communication with parents • Polls and online voting
Part of learning to be a good friend, co-worker etc. is to learn how to cooperate with others. This is not a skill learned on the Internet. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Tools Twitter • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Twitter • Microblogging • 140 characters • Plus • It’s all in the hashtag
Do it right! • http://mashable.com/2013/10/14/twitter-etiquette/ • http://mashable.com/2013/10/08/what-is-hashtag/
Create a Class Account • Lesson recaps • Answer homework questions • Connect students • Reminders • @TrusteeMcVey
Your teens need to learn to be inclusive rather than exclusive and cliquey. There are many more opportunities to learn to be inclusive in real life. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Socialization and Communication • staying connected with friends and family, • making new friends, • sharing pictures, and • exchanging ideas.
Deeper benefits • extend into their view of self, community, and the world • opportunities for community engagement • raising money for charity • volunteering for local events, and • political and philanthropic events
Individual and collective creativity • development and sharing of artistic and musical endeavors; • growth of ideas from the creation of • blogs, • podcasts, • videos, and • gaming sites
Your teens need to learn how to deal with free time without staring at a screen. With less screen time, they will have more opportunity to learn how to relax and use leisure time. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Expansion of online connections • shared interests to include others from more diverse backgrounds • affords the opportunity for: • respect, • tolerance, and • increased discourse about personal and global issues • fostering of one's individual identity and unique social skills
Tools YouTube Channel • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Enhanced Learning Opportunities • Middle and high school students are using social media to connect with one another on homework and group projects • Some schools successfully use blogs as teaching tools which helps • reinforce skills in English, • written expression, and • creativity.
Tools Blogs • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Create a Class Blog • Writing practice • Self-expression • Updates and insights • Blogger of the day • Publish best submission for week
Accessing Health Information • Adolescents anonymously learn about: • sexually transmitted infections, • stress reduction, and • signs of depression. • Improvements in health care: • increased medication adherence, • better disease understanding, and • fewer missed appointments.
Teens need to learn to be present in the moment. Too often, I see teens on their smartphones when they are in the company of their peers. They lose the ability to interact mindfully in the moment. Honestly, even adults do that to each other and it is quite upsetting. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Tools • Instagram • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Social media creates excessive drama because positive messages are read as more neutral than they are intended ; neutral messages are read as more negative, and one can only imagine what happens with messages intended to be negative. 8 Problems with Teens and Social Media
Celebrities make them . . . But why?
The Duck Face • The Muscle Shot • The Show Off More?
Validation “They crave positive feedback to help them see how their identity fits into their world. Social media offers an opportunity to garner immediate information. The problem is they are looking in a dangerous place.” Dr. Robyn Silverman
The danger exists in the possibility of a very public rejection. Negative feedback is there for all to see and often spirals into cyber-bullying. Even worse, they don’t recognize that peripheral opinions simply shouldn’t count.
Before you share . . . 1. Am I posting something I’d be embarrassed for my family to see? If yes, stop. Remember, you are creating a permanent cyber footprint. Once you put it out there, it’s out there forever.
Before you share . . . 2. Am I posting because I’m hoping someone will make me feel better about my choices? If yes, stop. Remember whose opinion truly matters to you than ask one of them what they think.
Before you share . . . 3. Am I posting to hurt someone else? If yes, stop. Cyber-bullying is never OK and there are often serious consequences for hurting someone via social media.
Tools • Snapchat • Know it? • Have it? • Use it? • Love it?
Cyberbullying and Online Harassment • Cyberbullying is deliberately using digital media to communicate false, embarrassing, or hostile information about another person. • cyberbullying can cause profound psychosocial outcomes including depression, anxiety, severe isolation, and, tragically, suicide.