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Conflict Resolution. And communication. Communication. There are barriers to communication that can cause conflict Mixed messages Differences Stereotypes Prejudices. Mixed Messages. Relaying one message orally, but physically sending another message
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Conflict Resolution And communication
Communication • There are barriers to communication that can cause conflict • Mixed messages • Differences • Stereotypes • Prejudices
Mixed Messages • Relaying one message orally, but physically sending another message • Ex. Telling someone how much you like them while rolling your eyes and frowning • Ex. Your friend is crying, and when you ask them if they’re okay, they say yes, and force a smile • Mixed Messages are a barrier to good communication
Differences • It is easy to communicate with someone who is similar to you because you may already share the same opinions and beliefs • It is a challenge and a potential barrier when you are speaking with someone who has values, opinions and beliefs that are different than yours • If you are not aware that the person you’re speaking with has different opinions or values, it may become a barrier to communication
Stereotypes • A Stereotype is a fixed belief that all members of a group are the same • Stereotypes apply in many areas- what region you’re from, gender, age, ethnicity, physical traits, etc. • Can you think of some stereotypes you’ve encountered?
Prejudices • Prejudices are opinions that are formed without complete knowledge • Prejudices are NOT based on facts • Prejudices can be both positive and negative, but are more often NEGATIVE • Racism is an extreme from of prejudice
Positive Communication • Active listening is an important part of positive communication • Communication is a two way process- it requires a sender and a receiver • Active listening is an important skill in positive communication
Active Listening • Active listening is a practice that involves the listener in the communication process • Steps to active listening: • Restate what the speaker says- feedback • Send signals you are listening, like nodding your head • Ask questions to clarify • Listen before answering • Do not interrupt
Conflict Poor communication is often the reason that family or friends get into disagreements, or conflict CONFLICT- disagreements or problems in relationships No relationship is conflict free
Tips for Resolving Conflict • Voice your concerns • Decide what the problem is- use only FACTS • Listen to the other side • Suggest all possible solutions • Find the right time to solve conflicts
Resolution Styles • Avoidance • Problem Solving • Compromise • Accommodating to Requirements • Separation
Avoidance • “Burying your head in the sand” • Ignoring the conflict completely • No resolution can be found since you are avoiding one important step of conflict resolution- voicing your concerns
Problem Solving • Both parties brainstorm ideas on how to solve the problem • The problem must be identified and both parties must be willing to offer up ideas for a solution
Compromise • Both parties acknowledge the conflict and work towards a common goal for resolution • Both parties must “meet in the middle” and sacrifice some to come to a compromise
Accommodating to Requirements • One party completely gives in to appease the other • The conflict itself is not resolved, but one party essentially surrenders to the other’s terms
Separation • When no other form of resolution can be found, and the conflict has escalated to a point of danger or unhealthiness, a separation of parties is the last resort • Separation can be a healthy choice when a last resort is needed.
Final Thoughts • Communication is necessary in all relationships • When communication is not successful, it can result in conflict • Conflict occurs in all relationships but it is important to resolve in a healthy manner