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Question: How does Birth Order affect Personality Development?. 3 + 1 Birth Order Theory First Born: Almost everything a firstborn does breaks new ground—Parents are new to parenting Firstborns learn to be resourceful, self-reliant, tough
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Question: How does Birth Order affect Personality Development? • 3 + 1 Birth Order Theory • First Born: • Almost everything a firstborn does breaks new ground—Parents are new to parenting • Firstborns learn to be resourceful, self-reliant, tough • Demand a lot of themselves, and of others in turn. • Fear of failure and Fear of blame drive them—don’t want to let down parents • Leadership is based on organization & dividing labor Chapter 10
Question: How does Birth Order affect Personality Development? • 3 + 1 Birth Order Theory (cont.) • Middle Born: • Undefined status—not having a defined place in the family—may be an advantage (creative & flexible) • Rebellion—more prone to rebel against the status quo—can be a positive—force for change/independence • Outgoing—often reach outside the family for significant relationships—may be especially influenced by peers • Shift Blame/Responsibility—difficulty accepting these Chapter 10
Question: How does Birth Order affect Personality Development? • 3 + 1 Birth Order Theory (cont.) • Last Born: • Has definite advantages and disadvantages • fussed over and pampered • may feel that they never quite measure up to their more experienced and accomplished siblings—inferiority • Learn to be “peacemakers”—seek to avoid conflict • Identify with victims—“Rescuers” • Tend to be “fun-loving” & affectionate Chapter 10
Question: How does Birth Order affect Personality Development? • Only Children: • Unique experience based on challenges: • Challenge One: Being too special • “only person that matters in the family”—Parents’ only focus • Challenge Two: Learning about peers • Lack of siblings = Lack of experience with peers • Challenge Three: Dealing with loneliness • only children depend more on friends for company—seek activities that they can do alone Chapter 10