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Solve This! (How to think creatively …and how to make innovation happen) ACPE SCMA/SCHA TAP CONFERENCE September 13, 2012. KEVIN E. O’CONNOR, CSP. Your Notes …Are Better Than My Notes. “Leaders are not born… they are cornered.”. -Winston Churchill. Three Frogs. Groups of Two Please.
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Solve This!(How to think creatively …and how to make innovation happen)ACPESCMA/SCHA TAP CONFERENCESeptember 13, 2012 • KEVIN E. O’CONNOR, CSP
“Leaders are not born…they are cornered.” -Winston Churchill
Today… • Paraphrase as a first response • Consider questions before conclusions • Affirm what you heard that you liked • Link and connect with “and” not “but” • Respond with thank you…or a paraphrase ? +
Today… • Paraphrase as a first response • Consider questions before conclusions • Affirm what you heard that you liked • Link and connect with “and” not “but” • Respond with thank you…or a paraphrase ? +
“Cooperation • isn’t getting people to do • what you want them to do.It’s getting them to want to do what you want them to do.”Earl Nightingale
SkillsetPhysicianExecutiveBus. Devel. • Data • Detail • Safety • Risk • Perfection • Research • Confirm • Meaning The Deal • Story Benefits • Possibility Agreement • Reward Chance • Profitable Usefulness • …in order to Close • Decide Close…Now
Internal MindsetPhysicianExecutiveSales • Peers • Safety • Reputation • Complexity • Mastery • Learning • Self • Team (self) • Plan Goals • Money Increase • Consideration Competition • Conservation Benefits • Hierarchy Matrix • Influence Persuasion • Institution Manager • Team (others) Team (win)
How About You? • Apple Store • Wait Staff • Ritz Carleton • Your Meetings
What Do These Words Mean To You ? • Present • Presence • Executive Presence • Physician Executive Presence • Your...Presence
Be Present.... And Have Presence
Three Ideas for Today • The Meaning of Value • Product of the Product • Connection
The Product …of Your Product • Internet • Starbucks • American Girl Store
Essential Elements • “The main thing is to make sure that the main thing is the main thing.”
Advice From a Psychologist…. • Really ? • What Else ? • Wow ! • Tell Me More About That ! • How Did You Decide To …? • S_ _ _ U_ !! • And…Remember…The Platinum Question
More Choices… • Hearing you say that, I… • I want/need your help because… • I’d like to get some things out in the open… • I have a different perspective… • What I appreciate the most about you is…
Avoid Pathetic Language Wish…Hope…Maybe…Problem...Have To…But… Got To...Totally Disagree…Wrong…Try.. Awesome…Basically…Actually Should…Maybe…Frankly… To Tell You The Truth… I’ve Got To Be Honest with You
Yes No Want Aim Decide Determine On Track Will Glad to Happy to My Honor to I Understand Let’s Thank you Choose More Powerful Words
Use Influential Language • I need your help. • Because… • The reason this is important is… • Can you give me an example of that? • Hearing you say that, I…. • I want…need your help…because • I hear you & I have a slightly different perspective… • You might be right. • What I appreciate about you is… • Thank you
Kevin E. O’Connor, CSP • 1-847-208-8840 • kevin@kevinoc.com
You're Not Just A Trustee, Administrator, or Physician Anymore!(Leadership, Influence, Connection)ACPESCMA/SCHA TAP CONFERENCESeptember 13, 2012 • KEVIN E. O’CONNOR, CSP
OPPORTUNITY CONVERSATION SKILL TECHNIQUE = WISDOM YOU AS LEADER INFLUENCER
The issue in all human conflict is never about things, but always about respect.”
My right to decide is being weakened • My right to control is being jeopardized • My judgement and my ideas are not being considered • My prestige and my status are being questioned • My feelings don’t seem to count here • I feel unfairly treated • I feel defeated • I feel powerless • I feel inferior
4 Elements of Change • I feel listened to . . . • I feel you are interested in me . . . • I feel you have helped me focus. . . • I feel encouraged. . .
“Everyone • loves • hearing a good listener.”Ron Stavoe
Show Interest Two Ways • Really?! • What Else? !
What is the Skillset and the Mindset of… Your Target? Who is your Target?
Influence Power
Power Access
Access Will They Take My Call?
Who takes your call? Who's calls do you take?
The Call Is Taken Because...
They Perceive We Can Improve Their Condition This Perception Begins First with How They Feel About Us
The Feeling is Based on... Can We Help Them Solve Their Conundrum?
Conundrum • Bewilderment • brain-twister • complication • confusion • dilemma • distraction • enigma • entanglement • labyrinth • maze • mystery • plight • quandary • rebus • stumper • ...and 11 others!
Ultimate Compliment in a System "I Need This Person In My Life"