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Facing The Crowd. How “Facing The Crowd” May Impact Families. Most people are tactful Some are not: dealing with “comments” Most people don’t stare Some do: subtle and out right! Most people are inclusive Some are not: dealing with exclusion.
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How “Facing The Crowd” May Impact Families • Most people are tactful • Some are not: dealing with “comments” • Most people don’t stare • Some do: subtle and out right! • Most people are inclusive • Some are not: dealing with exclusion
Professional Expectations • Expectation of Community Engagement • Assessing Family Comfort Levels • Discussing concerns and experiences • Developing strategies
Responding To The Public from “Facing the Crowd” Fullwood and Cronin • Family/Friends • Professionals you need on your side • People You Can’t Avoid • Total Strangers
Strategies • Knowing Threshold • Self Talk • Role Play • Tension Release • Being Assertive
Strategies • Providing Right Words • Taking the initiative • Emphasizing similarities • Using Humor • Managing clichés
Family and Friends • Higher level of response as these are people involved in your life • Dealing with those family members who “don’t get it” • Creating honest dialogue
People You Can Avoid • Keeping a “civil” relationship • Strategies for keeping your cool • Self Talk • “Rehearsal”
Professionals You Need On Your Side • Finding your courage to offer “perspective” • Maria’s story
Total Strangers • Maybe the most expendable group! • Maybe the most hurtful at times. • Allocating a rehearsed response • Possible scenario: an opportunity to educate
Stories from Families Julie and Bonnie, mother and grandmother of Tanner
Stories and StrategiesVideo Vignettes • Parisa • Maria
Your Stories and Strategies We invite you to share you experiences and strategies
References and Resources • Facing the Crowd,(1986) Cronin and Fullwood • Off to a Good Start Fact Sheets: Blind Babies Foundation, Bernas-Pierce, J. (Ed.) • Heart to Heart, Institute for Families, Nancy Mansfield, N. Hayashi, Horn,M., Kekelis, L. • Can’t Your Child See?, (1977). Eileen P. Scott, James Jan, and Roger Freeman • Children with Visual Impairments: A Parent’s Guide.(1996) M. Cay Holbrook (Ed.)
Many Thanks! • Julie Bernas-Pierce, M.Ed Executive Director Blind Babies Foundation jbp@blindbabies.org • Sue Parker-Strafaci, M.A ECSE Director of Child Development Services Braille Institute sparker-strafaci@brailleinstitute.org