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Mentoring 101: (1) How to Find a Mentor (2) How to Be a Mentor. Tracy Camp Colorado School of Mines. Mentoring 101: (1) How to Find a Mentor (2) How to Be a Mentor. Tracy Camp Colorado School of Mines. What Is Mentoring?.
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Mentoring 101:(1) How to Find a Mentor(2) How to Be a Mentor Tracy Camp Colorado School of Mines
Mentoring 101:(1) How to Find a Mentor(2) How to Be a Mentor Tracy Camp Colorado School of Mines
What Is Mentoring? When someone offers support and professional expertise to a less experience colleague
What Is a Role Model? One can be a role model without any direct contact
What Is Mentoring? 1-to-1 relationship Encourages Guides growth Helps you succeed Nature of relationship is adapted to individuals
What Does a Mentor Do? Acts as a role model Advises Advocates Coaches Makes connections Protects Provides letters Supports
Formal vs. Informal Mentors Formal: someone asks you to be a mentor Informal: someone asks you for advice/help
Research on Mentoring Research shows that those who are mentored achieve greater career advancement and higher work satisfaction than those who are not mentored.
What Does a Mentor Do? Acts as a role model Advises Advocates Coaches Makes connections Protects Provides letters Supports
What Does a Mentor Do? NEED MANY MENTORS Acts as a role model Advises Advocates Coaches Makes connections Protects Provides letters Supports
Mentoring Tip #1 Build a TEAM of mentors with varying expertise/experience
Mentoring Tip #1 Build a TEAM of mentors with varying expertise/experience at every stage of your career
Mentoring Tip #1 Build a TEAM of mentors with varying expertise/experience • good investment in yourself and your career
Mentoring Tip #2 • decide your goals (2) find mentors YOU need to be in the driver’s seat.
Academic Mentoring Ladder Chairs Full Full Associate Full/Associate Assistant Faculty M.S./Ph.D. students Faculty Undergraduates Ph.D. students M.S. students M.S. students Undergraduates Undergraduates High school students
Where to find a mentor? Look everywhere! - In your department at your institution - Outside your department at your institution - In your field outside your institution - Outside your field outside your institution
Mentoring Tip #3 Find GOOD mentors
Attributes of a Good Mentor Interest Supportive Patient Knowledgeable Competent Accessible Helps you figure out how to use your strengths Helps you figure out how to overcome your weaknesses
Attributes of a Good Mentor Listens, listens, and then listens some more Asks powerful/probing questions Is NOT a ‘know it all’ Shares ALL possibilities, w/o judgment Respects privacy Has positive personality characteristics humor, honesty, empathy, compassion, …
Mentoring Tip #4 Meet frequently, especially early on.
In a New Mentor Relationship Build trust Express commitment Set expectations (e.g., # times to meet/month) Set limits Create goals (in writing) Every mentoring relationship has phases, … including an end to formal mentoring
Mentoring Tip #5 Terminate a relationship that isn’t working
Discussion Topics Mentoring Tip #6
Discussion Topics Departmental & Institutional Culture
Discussion Topics Negotiation Skills
Discussion Topics Imposter Syndrome
Who’s Most at Risk? Students People working in jobs considered atypical for their sex First generational professionals … and five others
Questions to Ask Do you attribute your success to being a fluke, or “no big deal”? Do you secretly worry that others will find out you are not as bright/capable as they think you are?
Imposter Syndrome www.impostersyndrome.com Everybody is ignorant, only on different subjects. Woodrow Wilson
Discussion Topics Hone Elevator Pitch 3 minutes 7 minutes 15 minutes
Discussion Topics Share CVs
Discussion Topics Remember When? what did you want (need) to know then?
Benefits of Being a Mentor Facilitate another’s accomplishments Renewed enthusiasm for job Confidence Give Back
What Do Students Need? Academic advice Career information Graduate school info. Personal assistance Encouragement Moral support
Mentoring Tip #8 Be friendly and helpful. But don’t be a friend.
Discussion Topics Imposter Syndrome Negotiation Skills Pitches
Discussion Topics Remember When? Resume Review
Discussion Topics Career Planning Ask: how do you want to spend your day? Ask: what gets you out of bed in the morning?
Discussion Topics 1-to-1e-mentoring > 90% would recommend MentorNet
Discussion Topics Summer Opportunities