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Change by Joyce Raby

Change by Joyce Raby. I know everything there is to know about change. I Can Change. But odds are 9 to 1 that YOU can’t Even when death is the alternative. Some People Do.

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Change by Joyce Raby

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  1. Change by Joyce Raby

  2. I know everything there is to know about change.

  3. I Can Change But odds are 9 to 1 that YOU can’t Even when death is the alternative

  4. Some People Do • We read about people who overcome incredible odds and obstacles to make changes in their lives every day (drug addiction, recovery from injury, up and out of poverty) • They are like me – they are the 1 out of 10 who can change

  5. So what’s different about us/them? They are willing to believe that it is possible

  6. They are willing to live with ambiguity

  7. They are willing to not have all the answers

  8. They do not care what other people think (they do not substitute anyone else’s judgment for their own)

  9. They are willing to believe that the forces of the Universe are on their side. (which is a fancy new agey way to say they do not believe that misery is an acceptable way of life)

  10. So how? • When the pain of staying the same exceeds the pain of change • Or • When the change feels so good – you can’t help but do it

  11. “Tomorrow is Another Day” Is Crap! • Do something today or all is lost • Promise yourself and then don’t break it.

  12. Changing Others? • Solve Their Problem

  13. Make it Big Enough that they can notice

  14. Make them Feel Better

  15. The change must Increase their Value

  16. Unbridled Enthusiasm never hurts

  17. Summary – Changing Yourself • Know that You Can • Do Something Today • Keep Your Eye on the Prize • Stop Listening to Everyone’s Opinions • Make it about Love, then Love Yourself

  18. Summary – Changing Others • Solve A Problem • Make it Big Enough • Make it Feel Good • Add Value • Look Happy! Make it Fun!

  19. Want to Know More? • About Me? - buy me drinks;hear my stories • About Change? – Alan Duetschman, Fast Company, “Change or Die”, May, 2005 • About Change and Physical Fitness? – Chris Crowley, Amazon.com “Younger Next Year” (for men or women)

  20. One Last Word….. Suck it up Change is hard – if it wasn’t everyone would do it …… all the time…… And we would call it “beer”

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