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LIFE WITHOUT LIMITS. Attitude is Altitude. Attitude Adjustment. Example of Linda Instead of focusing on her limited vision, she focused on what she had. “ Do I want to spend the rest of my life wallowing for misery, or do I want to rise above what has happened and pursue my dreams”.
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Example of Linda • Instead of focusing on her limited vision, she focused on what she had. • “ Do I want to spend the rest of my life wallowing for misery, or do I want to rise above what has happened and pursue my dreams”
This too will pass I got this far. Better days are ahead Some days are harder than others One door is closed, but another will open
Techniques of Attitude Adjustment • Attitude of Gratitude • Jonis example= reject the victim role
Attitude of Action • I need to give back to the universe • Create a positive momentum; getting out of the bed is the toughest • Attitude of Empathy • Self centeredness= suicidal thoughts • Reaching out to someone is a way of healing yourself • Attitude of Forgiveness • Anger is not designed to be a round a clock motion • At least Forgive to unburden myself of anger an resentment
Fall seven times, stand up eight • Life is not a pass-fail test, it’s a trial and error process • Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm • Failures are not final. You are in the game.
Lesson # 1: It is a great teacher • Learning from mistakes • Practice, work hard • Tapal Ice Tea example
Lesson #2: It builds character • Losing makes you stronger, more focused, more creative, more determined • You need patience and perseverance • Thomas Edison example • “Every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward”
Lesson # 3: It motivates you • Unfavorable variance in actual and budgeted performance • Use the motivation to try harder to stay in the game
Lesson # 4: It helps you appreciate success • The tougher the climb, the better the view at the top • Feeling of achievement so incredible • Give everything a GO!
2 Dimensions • Trust • Skill Set
Trust • relationships are based on mutual understanding and trust. • dream team of supporters
Trust Building a relationship is like a savings account
Skill Sets • “People skills” • Psychologists say that our ability to build bonds of trust and mutually supportive relationships depends on 3 primary people skills. • Read emotions and moods(taking a read) • Listen attentively to what others say and how they say it
Skill Sets • Demonstrate care for other with actions(walk the talk)
“Pearls don’t lie on the seashore. If you want one, you must dive for it.” • Nick Vujicic- the proud creator of Ridiculous Rules. • “Every breathing person on the planet should be committed to doing something ridiculous at least once a day..” • We easily get trapped in the ‘someday’ mentality • The biggest risk of YOUR life? • “Security is mostly a superstition. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing”-Helen Keller
Ridiculous Rules for managing risks • Test the waters • “No one tests the depth of the river with both feet” 2. Go with what you know • Do your homework
Check the timer • You would not want to start a ice cream business in the dead of the winter • Write down something in the night; read it in the morning; see the difference! • Get a second opinion • Emotions may be outrunning; get a mentor before entering the tricky territory
Prepare for the unseen consequences • Companies create a ‘buffer.’ • “Take risks; if you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.”
FYI.. Nick and his wife Kanae Miyahara